See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

The Official #ComorbidWoman

Call me Ace! She/her, adult, narcoleptic, and neurodivergent

**Reminder: Take care of yourself! Did you remember to eat, drink some water, and take your medicine?**

beemovieerotica

adhdcognizant

🙂🙃

beemovieerotica

helpful thing: if someone finds your (lack of) visible emotional reaction offputting, a good go-to phrase is, "sorry, I'm still processing this--how are you feeling?"

focus the conversation back on them, because if they're telling you about it, they needed the space to be heard. you don't need to have a big emotional response, people do actually find it comforting if you're calm and receptive and give them space to delve into their own emotions.

it's shitty that autistic people are made out to be unhelpful with emotional conversations, when it's that groundedness and presence of mind that can be so desperately needed for people in a crisis. neurodivergent people, your calmness is a superpower.

sergle

cyborbs

best thing tumblr ever did for me is the term "rotating it in my mind". it's really true that sometimes you think about something real hard but you can't tell what the thoughts are exactly. it's revolutionary stuff, i might even say

basic-bamboo

dangerliesbeforeyou

what social status do you consider yourself (& your family) as

working class

middle class

upper class

other?? explain in tags

poverty 😎

basic-bamboo

lesbianrey

it does more harm than good to prop up the myth of the ‘neurotypical’ who completes tasks cheerfully with no issues. this person is a capitalist fantasy. the more you define yourself in comparison to this myth the more you justify social structures staying the same with minor accommodations to the ‘exceptions’ and the continued pathologizing of discomfort under hostile conditions

wizard-email

without-ado

Grannies around 100 years old appeared in Vogue 2020. They are so beautiful just like flowers.

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bowsersforeskin

explosionshark

Tbh if you're a teenager who is marginalized and feels rejected by society the coolest thing you can do for yourself is get really into metal bc it's a subculture that's proud of being outside of the mainstream, it's got a HUGE breadth of diversity in style, the uniform is black t-shirts with gross designs which look good on everyone AND the experience of going to your first show (or just sitting in your room w the music up loud) and headbanging til your neck is sore is SO life affirming

explosionshark

bloominglegumes

gabr1elkit-deactivated20230205

i want to see old men with full beards learning ballet and i want to see terrible art from people in their 30s who have only just got their first tablet and i want to see mothers picking up their old hobbies from before they were told it wasn’t okay to have hobbies and i want to see people in their early 20s figuring out how to be alive by making bad music in their bedrooms and i want zines to be handmade paper pamphlets of devotion and i want creation to be fun again instead of a competition where we all have to monetise joy until we lose the invaluable currency of unashamed love again